How to Report Someone in an Online Chat
Here's how to report someone in chat, and when you should. Report anyone who is sexual, hateful, threatening, scamming, or who appears to be under 18 on an adult site. Use the platform's report button, save evidence, block them, and contact the police if anyone is in danger or you are being blackmailed.
Try TalkWithStrangers.club FreeWhat to Report
- Sexual content or requests
- Anyone who says or appears to be under 18 on an adult platform
- Hate speech and harassment
- Threats of violence or self-harm
- Scams, phishing links and money requests
- Sharing someone's personal information
- Spam and bots
How to Report on TalkWithStrangers.club
- Tap the flag on the message, or Report in the chat menu.
- Choose a reason and add a short note.
- Block the user if you want no further contact.
- Moderators review the report; serious violations lead to permanent device-level bans.
Save Evidence
Screenshot the messages, the handle and any payment requests before you leave the chat.
When to Go to the Police
Threats to life, image-based blackmail, or any involvement of a child. In the US, the FBI accepts tips at tips.fbi.gov or 1-800-CALL-FBI (FBI).
Why Reporting Matters
Every report removes someone who would otherwise harm the next person. You are protecting the community, not snitching.
What Makes a Good Report
Moderators act fastest on reports that are specific. A useful report answers four questions:
- What happened? Choose the closest category: sexual content, minor, harassment, hate, threat, scam, spam or personal information.
- Where? Report the exact message when you can, not just the chat.
- When? Reports are time-stamped automatically, but note the time if you also contact police.
- Anything else? One or two lines of context: "Asked for my Snapchat, then sent a link."
You do not need to write an essay. One accurate category plus a sentence of context is ideal.
Report Categories Explained
| Category | Report it when… | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Minor | Someone says or appears to be under 18 | "I'm 15" |
| Sexual content | Explicit messages, images, links or acts | Explicit link sent unprompted |
| Harassment | Insults, repeated unwanted contact, intimidation | Rejoins rooms to insult you |
| Hate | Attacks on identity | Slurs about religion or nationality |
| Threat | Violence or self-harm threats | "I know where you live" |
| Scam | Money, gift cards, crypto, phishing | "Send a gift card and I'll call" |
| Personal information | Someone shares anyone's private details | Posting a phone number |
| Spam / bot | Repeated messages or links | Same link to every room |
What Happens After You Report on TalkWithStrangers.club
| Step | What happens |
|---|---|
| 1 | The report enters the moderation queue, with child-safety reports first |
| 2 | A moderator reviews the reported messages and context |
| 3 | Action is taken under the Community Guidelines: warning, timed ban, permanent ban or device-level ban |
| 4 | Serious cases, such as child exploitation or imminent threats, are referred to authorities |
| 5 | The reported user can appeal; the decision is reviewed by a person |
The reported person is never told who reported them.
Reporting in Voice and Video Chats
Live audio and video cannot be filtered before you see or hear them, so reporting matters even more. If something explicit or threatening happens on camera, end the call, then report from the chat screen straight away. Screenshot what you can safely capture, but never record or save explicit images of a minor; report and leave that to moderators and police.
Reporting in Chat Rooms
In rooms, report the individual message rather than arguing. Many people replying to a troll gives them what they want. One report and a block is more effective.
Reporting Scams Outside the Platform
If you lost money or were blackmailed, also report outside the chat site. In the US, the FBI accepts tips at tips.fbi.gov or 1-800-CALL-FBI (FBI). Consumer fraud can be reported to the FTC; Americans reported $12.5 billion in fraud losses to the FTC in 2024 (FTC). In other countries, use your national police cybercrime reporting service.
False Reports
Reporting someone just because you disagree with them wastes moderator time and can lead to action against the reporter. Report rule-breaking, not opinions.
Why Your Report Matters
Every report helps remove someone who would otherwise harm the next person. Scammers and predators rely on people skipping without reporting. Two taps make the platform safer for everyone.
Quick Reporting Checklist
- [ ] Choose the closest category
- [ ] Report the exact message
- [ ] Add one line of context
- [ ] Block if you want no more contact
- [ ] Save screenshots if money or threats are involved
- [ ] Contact police for threats, image-based blackmail or anything involving a child
Common Questions About Reporting
People often worry that reporting is "snitching" or that nothing will happen. On a moderated site, reports are the main way bad actors are found and removed, and reporters stay anonymous. If you are unsure whether something breaks the rules, report it anyway; moderators make the call.
Reporting Someone Who Says They're Under 18
Adult chat sites must not have minors. If someone says they are under 18 or appears to be, end the chat, report them with the "minor" category and do not continue the conversation. Never ask for proof of age, photos or ID. Child-safety reports are reviewed before all others.
Reporting Self-Harm Concerns
If someone says they plan to hurt themselves, encourage them to contact local emergency services or a crisis line, report the chat so moderators can see it, and, if you know they are in immediate danger, contact emergency services yourself. You are not responsible for fixing it alone.
Keep Yourself Safe While Reporting
Don't confront the person, don't reveal that you reported them, and don't share your own details to "prove" anything. Block them after reporting if you want no further contact.
Reporting From Your Phone
On mobile, press and hold a message to see the report option, or open the chat menu and tap Report. The process is the same as on desktop and takes a few seconds.
What Not to Report
Disagreements, different opinions, someone skipping you or a conversation that simply wasn't fun are not rule-breaking. Skip and move on.
Why Some Reports Lead to No Action
If a reported message doesn't break the rules, moderators may not act. That's not a failure of reporting; it means the system is working fairly. Keep reporting real rule-breaking.
Reporting and Your Mental Health
Seeing harmful content can be upsetting. After reporting something disturbing, step away, talk to someone you trust and take a break from chatting if you need to. You did the right thing by reporting.
Reporting Summary
Category, exact message, one line of context, block if needed, screenshots for money or threats, police for danger or anything involving a child.
Key Takeaway
Report the exact message, pick the right category, add a line of context, block if needed, and involve police for threats, blackmail or anything involving a child.
Related: Community Guidelines · Safety Center · How to spot a bot
Frequently Asked Questions
Moderators review the report and take action under the Community Guidelines.
No.
Yes.
Yes, from your recent chats list, as long as you remember the handle and time.
Child-safety reports are prioritised; other reports are reviewed by a moderator as quickly as possible.
Report individual messages; moderators can then act on the room.
Yes. The reported person never learns who reported them.
They face longer bans and device-level bans.
No, but moderators review context and only act on rule-breaking.
Yes, report them as a minor and end the chat.
Serious cases, such as child exploitation or imminent threats to life, are referred to the relevant authorities.
Yes, but report too if the person broke the rules, so they can't target others.